Extramarital Relations

Everybody knows the principal of getting married. Marriage is a promise for husbands and wives to get together and live happiness forever. So it’s the time that you should both have mutual understanding and show consideration with each other, right? And, as you mentioned that men are tend to be a womanizer, which means men who likes many women and have short sexual relationships with them, lots of people blame men for their flirty character. However, you have to understand that not every man is inclined to flirt with women. Actually, if this situation occurred, it must have problem in marriage. But you know that whenever the problem comes up, you cannot always blame men for their character. Besides, we somehow take in a stereotype which affected by soap operas and movies, and novels so on. Mostly, husbands are shown for bad side in having an affair with other women. But this time is not the problem of men. I think the problem might go to the wife. If the wife shows more aggressive attitude and is apt to be control of everything you do and even turn you down for getting divorced in the end, both you and your wife just hit the bottom. That sounds quite horrible, doesn’t it?

Take Mr. Guo example, everyone knows that he had an affair with an English teacher, right? But he stated that he found an important thing in choosing a mate. It’s not the women’s appearance or superficial things for showing your affection but for revealing the understanding and consideration by your soul-mate. Only your soul-mate can heal your mentality.